Harry Hitzeman

Harry became a Spirit Brother in August 2024 and served as a Newly Inspired Guide in October 2024. He now also volunteers to help with website development projects for P2SW. Harry learned about P2SW through conversations with friends in MenLiving. Harry joined MenLiving in 2023 with a desire to open himself up to new opportunities and to make new friends. Near total hearing loss in his left ear had Harry retreating into a life of isolation which created fear for Harry as he realized that isolating oneself can be a precursor to depression, an increase in symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease, and even suicidal thoughts. After a few months of attending meetings, Harry set an intention for himself to do whatever he could to give back to the MenLiving community and share the experiences he has gained from 75 years of adventure on the path of life. In a short period of time, Harry noticed that he and other attendees would leave MenLiving meetings feeling a sense of relief, and that relief would lead to even greater ease with ensuing meetings. Harry resides in Naperville, Illinois with his wife and best friend of 35 years Marti Beddoe. Harry and Marti found each other after leaving their first marriages. Their blended family consists of five adult children, seven grandchildren, and three amazing great grandchildren. Harry is the second youngest of 6 children in his family of origin, and Marti is the oldest of three children in her family. After losing his father at age 11, Harry put his dreams of being a magician, ventriloquist, or stand-up comedian on hold so he could get a job to help provide for his family. The lessons Harry learned in those early years have taught him to be compassionate towards others and grateful for his many blessings. When he is not participating in MenLiving or P2SW activities, Harry loves getting out in nature, photographing and sharing the beauty he sees, and he is still quick to use humor as a tool to connect with others and bring levity to the moment. Harry’s dream is to be a vibrant contributor to life well into his 80s and beyond by helping to support men in their journey to balance and greater mental health.